Memorize These 6 Threesome Positions Now, Thank Us Later
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If you’re a guy who managed to score a lady who’s up for a threesome, or if you just enjoy adding another player to the bedroom from time to time, your threesome vocabulary is probably quite developed. Regardless of what you think you know about ménage à trois, when it comes to getting the most out of all of those body parts, you have to know how it works for her, just as much as it works for you.
Before you partner up again or invite another person into your bed, educate yourself with some of the best threesome sex positions, along with how to make it steamier for you — and for her.
1. The Daisy Chain
What It Is: You’re doing one woman doggy-style while she’s going down on the other woman. Katy Zvolerin, the Director of Public Relations for Adam & Eve, says the women switching places during this position can make it even hotter, or you can explore double penetration if you swap out the extra woman for another guy.
Why It’s Hot for You: “During this position, men can control the depth and the speed of penetration, for both vaginal and oral,” says Zloverin. “In this position, men love how visually stimulating rear entry is, along with watching a woman perform oral sex on another woman.”
Why It’s Hot for Her: If you’re exploring double penetration, Zloverin says women can experience their G-spot being stimulated, which can make for a pretty killer orgasm. “This means she has the chance to have an entirely different orgasm that’s often more intense than clitoral or vaginal orgasms,” she notes.
2. Bobbing for Apples
What It Is: You’re lying down while one woman gives you a blow job, leaving the other woman to sit on your face while you perform oral sex on her.
Why It’s Hot for You: It may seem pretty obvious why this position could really get you turned on , but Zloverin says this sensory overload may be just as hot as actual penetration. Plus, you’ll be satisfied by this expanded 69-inspired position that really takes a lot of the work out of sex for you. The views will be quite amazing, too.
Why It’s Hot for Her: “In this position, women have the option of giving or receiving pleasure and can switch back and forth, having multiple orgasms,” says Zloverin. “They can can also get off giving oral while touching themselves or surrender when they’re receiving oral sex, so she gets to be both submissive and dominant.”
3. The G-Spot Jiggy
What It Is: As you have sex with one woman from behind, another woman is on her knees underneath, licking your balls and the other woman at the same time. If that sounds intense, that’s because it really, really is — in the best way possible.
Why It’s Hot for You: With all of the different sensory experiences going on from your testicles to the base of your penis and your perineum, the feeling of thrusting while being orally stimulated may send you over the edge. “There’s also the possibility of anal stimulation via her fingers and tongue,” notes Zloverin.
Why It’s Hot for Her: “Women receive the benefit of oral clitoral stimulation while being penetrated,” says Zloverin. Some women experience total’ orgasms while in this position courtesy of the tingly feelings inside their vagina and via the super-sensitive clit.
4. The Double Penetration
What It Is: You penetrate a woman (either anally or vaginally) while another guy penetrates the other. You could also swap between DP and an Eiffel Tower, having one guy behind the woman while another receives a blow job, for an added thrill.
Why It’s Hot for You: “Many men have double penetration fantasies,” states Zloverin. “It has to do with completely ‘filling a woman up’ while she surrenders to two men.” For you, you’ll experience additional stimulation of the other penis through the posterior vaginal wall, which will make you even closer to orgasm.
Why It’s Hot for Her: “Many women find anal penetration very pleasurable, especially coupled with vaginal penetration and potentially tripled with her or one of the guys clitorally stimulating her with their hand or sex toy,” says Zloverin. It’ll feel very intense for her at first, but as she gets wetter, the experience will be easier and more erotic.
5. The Strap-On
What It Is: One woman wears a strap-on and enters you or the other woman. If you’re feeling adventurous, it could also be translated with another dude.
Why It’s Hot for You: Zloverin notes that if you’re being penetrated, you’ll experience a type of orgasm that is different from your normal climaxes. “This gives guy the opportunity to stimulate their P-spot — or prostate — which can lead to a rippling orgasm through his body,” she says. Another fun fact? According to Zloverin, having consistent P-spot orgasms can reduce your risk for prostate cancer.
Why It’s Hot for Her: If your partner wants a little more power play, a strap-on may be the thing that really sends her over the edge. “Strap-ons allow women to become empowered by their ability to control penetration,” says Zloverin. “This may lead her to feeling more confident sexually and increase the likelihood of initiating sex more in the future.” Many strap-ons also come with embedded vibrators, meaning she can stimulate herself to orgasm while she’s penetrating him.
6. The Magical O
What It Is: While you have sex doggy-style with one woman, she makes out with the other woman, kissing her breasts, touching her and more.
Why It’s Hot for You: While you’re already being turned on by having sex (either vaginal or anal) from behind, you get the great view of girl-on-girl action. Zloverin says this is probably one of the most common male desires during a threesome, and that visuals will really be what make it for you in the bedroom. It can also escalate to women performing oral sex on each other.
Why It’s Hot for Her: For women, this might be a way to experience something with another woman and control how far she goes. Zloverin points out that women can be more open to bisexual play than men, and it could make her more up for girl action in the future. “She has the opportunity to get plenty of oral and clitoral stimulation while getting penetrated,” explains Zloverin. “This tends to result in being not only more orgasmic, but multiply orgasmic!”
Sex Toys to Take Your Threesome to the Next Level
As excited as you are to be having a threesome, it might take a bit before you find your rhythm. Just like with anything new you add to your sexual repertoire, figuring out the right movement and the best positions for your own threesome experience will be a lot of trial and error. Once you’ve gotten the gist of it, experts agree that adding in a few sex toys can help you up the intensity (and payoff) of your three-is-hotter-than-two adventure.
KingCock Strap-On Harness with Dildo
You’ve likely seen a strap-on before in some of the pornos that you watch, but you’ve likely never considered what it would be like to actually use one in your own bedroom. Just like penises, they come in a great variety of sizes, varying in length and girth. With this one’s adjustable straps and its 6-inch attached dildo, it’ll make many positions very fun, and target toward her (or the added lover’s) G-spot. It’s also a good toy to get you started before you get into the mega-toys.
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set
A double dildo is for the very adventurous woman who wants to do double-duty. While she’s wearing it, one dildo will be inside of her, and then she can use the other dildo to enter you or your temporary lover. While they’re both riding their dildos, they can go down on you, make out with one another, and whatever else they can multitask. This starter set will get you all three introduced to this type of threesome play, complete with adjustable straps and two dildos.
Strap U Vibrating Strapless Strap-On
Another way to go about it is this toy, with one vibe meant to stimulate clitoral action while the other one is more for riding it out. In other words, the longer shaft has an angle that can be modified to fit a wide range of positions, and the smaller shaft is meant for the one in your party of three who will be thrusting into the other one. Yep, just wrap your head around that before you buy it.
Couple’s Starter Kit
Just like when you’re having sex with one another, a little extra addition can go a long way when you’re having a threesome. Though some toys might feel like they’re too much to handle, starter kits that include everything from cock rings to vibrating bullets could be the erotic introduction you three need to keep the adventure intense, passionate and sexy. Consider this set from that offers something for everyone: a twin vibrating cock ring, a male stroker and a bullet vibe. While you’re wearing the cock ring, whichever partner you’re having sex with will get the benefit of the dual-stimulation, while you can play with the bullet vibe on the other. Or, while one of your girls is giving you a hand job with the sleeve, you can use the vibe on the other girl. That way, no one is ever left out.
Silicone Anal Beads
Another fun idea for the daring is anal beads. Because the male G-spot is in your prostate, anal beads can actually be a way for you to have a powerful orgasm unlike you have ever experienced before. While one girl is slowly playing with your area down there, the other woman can go down on you, making for a sensory overload that you’ll definitely want to try again. Another idea? Some women — and guys! — thoroughly enjoy anal sex, and if at least one of your partners is into it, you can try using the beads while you’re having sex, or watch one girl play with the other’s region. You’ll get turned on by seeing them in action while they engage another part of their body that’s a pleasure zone.
All illustrations by Carlee Ranger.
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